Is loyalty necessary?

I loyalty necessary in a relationship. That's my question perhaps some of you with experience can elaborate more. However this is my opinion ,loyalty is not needed in a relationship nad this is based on experience and observation. Why we dont need loyalty in a relationship. You see if you are in a relationship the chances are very high that you are blinded by love. And this is everything you need in a relationship. Look at what happened between Ashley and Cheryl Cole. Ashley cheated on her he had affairs with other women. You tell me is it acceptable?No?Yes?the answer is NO! but then she forgave him and accepted him back. See you dont need to be loyal to be in a relationship. Another scenario, you can be loyal to one girl not for a few days, not for a few months but a few YEARS and in the end she falls in love with another guy and thats the end of everything. See you dont need to be loyal. Being loyal hurts a lot but in return you dont usually get what you deserve.So its a choice that most of us have. So why be loyal if love overcomes everything?Why be in a relationship when you can be in a few relationship just make the guy/girl fall in love with you and he/she will definitely forgive you no matter what you do. Of course you can choose to be loyal to one wonderful guy/girl but be prepared to face the consequences. To wrap this random topic let me share with you something i learn in life and I learnt it the hardway. Loyalty is important but not necessary in a relationship..=D


Extraordinary Her

this poem is inspired by one of my coolest friend,Wan Zan Nureen =D

Extraordinary Her
If you were a flower
you would be a white rose
with pure white petals signifying your pureness
If you were a painting
you are a colourful painting
of a beautiful scenery
If you were a song
you will have an honest lyric
with a loud music
sang by a true rockstar
If you were a poem
You will be words
arranged to describe eternal beauty
If you were a dress
You will be a black dress
worn by a princess
to charm her prince charming
But since you are human
You dont have to be anything else
but yourself
As you yourself means everything

Enough is enough

  • Everyday we can see news updates about our political situation.
  • If you care to read not only the main stream media but also the alternative media I am sure you will realize how screw up our country is now.
  • We are make to believe that our economy is growing smoothly and everything is fine in this country.
  • But honestly you and me should know that it is not true. If we our economy is growing why on earth are we facing extremely high inflation? Food price is not stable oil price is still high despite the decrase in the world oil price.
  • They say the retail price of petrol will be based on the average monthly market price of world crude oil. Again you and me should know this is not true.
  • Enough about economics because i am not really a pro in this matter having studied only basic econs.
  • However having studied in MRSM a school dominated by my own race and Sunway University where my own race is the minority I can see a clearer picture of where this country is going.
  • We Malays always think that the Chinese and Indians are always there to kill us or if Malaysia is under attack they the Chinese will run to China and the Indians will run back to India leaving the Malays to die in Malaysia. This is very wrong. I can tell you most of my chinese and indians friends consider Malaysia as THEIR country not CHINA or INDIA and that most of them is willing to die for this country.
  • Correct me if I am wrong.
  • We have to change this perspective because if we want to continue leading this country we have to lead everyone.
  • I really dont understand our leaders they are voted to lead Malaysia not their own race and yet they are more interested in fighting for thier own race be it chinese, malay or Indian.If one race is developed more than the other races this is actually a failure in our leadership.
  • Because our country is not meant for one race but for all the races.
  • HAve we forgotten the challenges of VISION 2020?
    Challenge 1: To form a nation that stands as one.
    Challenge 2: To produce a Malaysian community that has freedom, strength, and full of self confidence.
    Challenge 3: To develop a mature democratic community.
    Challenge 4: To form a community that has high morale, ethics and religious strength.
    Challenge 5: To cultivate a community that is matured and tolerant.
    Challenge 6: To form a progressive science community.
    Challenge 7: To cultivate a community rich in values and loving culture.
    Challenge 8: To ensure the formation of a community with a fair economy.
    Challenge 9: To cultivate a prosperous community.

Let's go thorugh all the challenges and what have we achieved so far and let me remind you we have only 12 years left.

Challenge 1: Bumiputera with thei own issue non bumis with their issues perhaps we are one of the most divided nation
Challenge 2: with the draconion law ISA anyone can be detained the word freedom itself is not in our nations dictionary
Challenge 3: Democratic community? tell me how on earth is democracy possible with ISA
Challenge 4 : Religious are not being respected this is my personal opinion if you are a non believer you dont deserve to discuss someone elses religion you can say good things and bad things theres no point because u dont believe in it.
Challenge 5 : HOw is the community going to be matured and tolerant when our leaders arent
Challenge 6: Science and Maths in BM?How is that helping in the progress of scientific community?
Challenge 7 :We are still racially divided..where is the love?
Challenge 8: Our government is practicing fair economy.(Anyone agree?)
Challenge 9: Prosperous community is a united community but look what happen when the rakyat are united?Their leaders are sent into ISA.

with 12 years left sadly we are so far away. Each year we are drifting even more further from achieving vision 2020. Correct me if i am wrong. CHANGE IS NEEDED NOW!

Someone please explain to me

If its too hard to understand me,understand my words

I want to fall in love again

But Im afraid to lose someone

The way I lost you

I want to fall in love again

But I am afraid

To be hurt again

Because to heal the wound

It felt impossible

I want to fall in love again

But I was was convinced that wou were the one for me

Look what happened,now

I want to fall in love again

But if I move one to the next stage

I am afraid that it would get me back

to where I am now

I want to fall in love again

But you as my history

I dont think i'll get a better story

I want to fall in love again

Because Im soo over you

But the thought of losing a bestfriend

the way i Lost you as my best friend

I'd rather die alone

I want to fall in love again

As i dont live in memories anymore

But I dont want to live in those memories again

I have reasons to be afraid

You were my bestfriend.Now you are my friend

I am fine with that. I dont want it to repeat.

by Ahmad Ridhuan Alauddin

Almost Here...

This song is seriously very meaningful im posting this for one of my friend!(wawa u should read this lyriq and listen to the song!)=)

Almost here by Delta Goodrem and Brian McFadden

Did I hear you right'cause

I thought you said

Let's think it over

You have been my life

And I never planned

Growing old without you

Shadows bleeding through the light

Where the love once shined so bright

Came without a reason

Don't let go on us tonight

Love's not always black and white

Haven't I always loved you?

But when I need you

You're almost here

And I know that's not enough

And when I'm with you

I'm close to tears'

cause your only almost here

I would change the world

If I had a chance

Oh won't you let me

Treat me like a child

Throw your arms around me

Oh please protect me

Bruised and battered by your words

Dazed and shattered now it hurts

Haven't I always loved you?

But when I need you

You're almost here

And I know that's not enough

And when I'm with you

I'm close to tears'cause your only almost here

Bruised and battered by your words

Dazed and shattered now it hurts

Haven't I always loved you?

But when I need you

You're almost here

Well I never knew how far behind

I'd left you

And when I hold you your almost here

Well I'm sorry that I took our love for granted

And now I'm with you

I'm close to tears'cause I know

I'm almost here

Only almost here

Marie Digby

Well this is something I wrote for Marie Digby=D

Marie Digby

Sing Marie sing,
Because there ain't no other reason
heaven sent you here
Smile Marie smile,
I'll run a million miles,
Just to catch your smile
Strum Marie strum,
keep strumming your guitar,
you are the star,
That rhymes the songs,
Play Marie play the piano,
You are the voice on the radio,
That's in my dream every night,
It seems to me that you are the angel
the voice that makes me swoon,
Shall I say it again?
Marie Digby sing,
keep singing
Cuz there aint no other reason
Heaven sent you here.=)
-extraordinary me,18-